To JEKKA!::::::
you block me and then start deleting my entries/responding but not giving ME a change to give my rebuttal......Sounds more like YOU want it to be one sided than the other way around. Instead of dealing with your issues with me calmly, you went on a rant that lasted about an hour or more, and I took all of that bullshit. If I feel like making a general post about how I feel today, then I have every right to do so. The only reason you would have to ban me is to make sure nobody thinks anything is going on. Considering the fact that I didn't give any names, that shouldn't matter. You made all these accusations and not once did you try to say it in a nice, considerate, calm, FRIENDLY way. You claimed that these were all big issues to you but you didn't feel it was necessary to mention anything at the time that each thing happened. You claim that I am rude and talking crap about Lindsey, but I do recall several times where you got pissed off and vented to me about how SEVERAL people from this community were acting off and inactive, and whenenever I said or did something that reflected that, you wouldn't say shit. LEARN TO COMMUNICATE BETTER. You will get a nicer reaction/response. Be honest, but also know that the person you are speaking to has feelings...even I know that shit. Notice how I didn't insult you once. Because obviously, *I* just happen to be better than that, and accept my friends for who they are...I don't make a list of shit I don't like about them, and then act as though the world is coming to an end whilst attacking them on one random occasion. When you tell someone something that is bothering you, you need to be aware of the fact that although people DO need to grow, and DO need criticism from time to time, that criticism needs to be a HEALTHY and FRIENDLY type, that leaves the person feeling better about themselves while you make suggestions for things they could do to become a better person. You did not offer ANY of that. You didn't give me any advice, and you did not make sure to tell me anything one at a time. What you did is the EXACT same thing that Steena, Cara and Angel did during the crazy LJ brawl back then. You know you can be a better person than that. I also know that if you had been more conscious of MY feelings and what *I* had going on, I would have taken what you said with a grain of salt and moved on. When you started going on and on, I was actually in the middle of work, and yet I had to put that off to deal with your whiny parade. When I saw that you were upset that I'm not as active a mod as you in the community you made, I was trying to think of a way to apologize to you, but then you kept throwing insult after insult...telling me how I have no friends, that I act that way towards everyone, etc. etc. etc. and yet I sat there......not being rude or making any comments towards you or anything.
You've deleted 2 of my entries that were quite vague.....and I'm sure that is because you have a guilty consciounce.(sp>?)
Either way, you cannot delete this, and I will tell everyone from the community about this entry. If you find that ban-worthy, so be it. You're the one in the wrong.